love is nature or nurture?

Well, have you ever wondered if love is born itself or it needs water to grow up??

I believe it is the combination of these two things:
-It is natural attraction for these two sexes which have chemistry mutually. Words are just way to communicate which is effective only less than 20%, but body language 50% in motion of love. If a lady who possess beauty, gentle behavior, sense of caring & humor, intelligence, confidence... would catch my attention, yet I need further assessment (love is not always blinded)
-Khmer word " Sne men chnes Snet" [love is not great as closeness] is absolutely right. only mutual friends find it easy to make their friendship go further to relationship. But remember, don't ever believe this and limit your most qualified soul mate outside your friends boundary.
-If you feel good to someone, don't hesitate to show it to him/her. Or it would be easier if s/he tries to interact you. But the worst thing is that you response the one you also feel interested by your silence and ignorance which is the worth enemy for killing one's heart (I feel very down and want to wave my white surrender flag to those who ignore me even though they are ladies). Remember: chance comes only once or twice. Don't ever let it go. Put some effort to get it pong :D
-Most of us may say we are not ready to put leg into relationship (especially girls) but I advise you to think of it. Great great people cannot be available for long; someone will try to get him/her before you decide to do so... Therefore, you have fewer opportunities and less time... Get to know more people also helps us to be mentally grown-up. It costs to have a try...