love tip: how to meet your soul mate quickly

Why should we care about marriage and soul mate???
IT is simply because we have to spend many years of rest of life with the right one. Wrong choice can often harm our feeling. It is really hard decision. personally, I feel most of my female friends and girls I know are so great ladies that we find it hard to think whether who is the most appropriate for us?? People have different taste of life; maybe I say lady A is great but my friend says lady B is more wonderful.. just because we love and give value differently

This writing is the special designed tip for those who are single available which refers to you who do not have relationship with someone yet and are emotionally and mentally ready to have one.

Word "soul mate" here means variously based on our unique definition: whether just a simple soul mate, or a long-term relationship or else...

Here are a brief notification:

1. Complete your check-list criteria: ask what your soulmate should be like? (appearance, character, vision, goal in life & career, hobby....)

2. Know yourself: you have to know yourself (appearance, character, vision, goal in life & carreer, hobby....) - I'll give more detail soon after I finish reading a book related to this.

3. Get to know those potential people: try to know those even strangers, friends, ... only they're our target. Try to get to know each other... as like #1 & #2... Give someone a chance, give ourselves a chance as well (at least we can be friends and know more people)

4. Once you know him/her clearly, try to have a date (just simple coffee together). It is really hard for us as Cambodian to confront face to face with this kind of unknown guy. But it does worth to do so...

5. .... time...... will judge .... our fate... :)

Hope it is helpful. Feedback and questions can be asked this below

thx for reading

love is nature or nurture?

Well, have you ever wondered if love is born itself or it needs water to grow up??

I believe it is the combination of these two things:
-It is natural attraction for these two sexes which have chemistry mutually. Words are just way to communicate which is effective only less than 20%, but body language 50% in motion of love. If a lady who possess beauty, gentle behavior, sense of caring & humor, intelligence, confidence... would catch my attention, yet I need further assessment (love is not always blinded)
-Khmer word " Sne men chnes Snet" [love is not great as closeness] is absolutely right. only mutual friends find it easy to make their friendship go further to relationship. But remember, don't ever believe this and limit your most qualified soul mate outside your friends boundary.
-If you feel good to someone, don't hesitate to show it to him/her. Or it would be easier if s/he tries to interact you. But the worst thing is that you response the one you also feel interested by your silence and ignorance which is the worth enemy for killing one's heart (I feel very down and want to wave my white surrender flag to those who ignore me even though they are ladies). Remember: chance comes only once or twice. Don't ever let it go. Put some effort to get it pong :D
-Most of us may say we are not ready to put leg into relationship (especially girls) but I advise you to think of it. Great great people cannot be available for long; someone will try to get him/her before you decide to do so... Therefore, you have fewer opportunities and less time... Get to know more people also helps us to be mentally grown-up. It costs to have a try...