Are you a good listerner??

Well, are you one of them??

Admittedly, I am not and most of us are not. That's why I write this brief below:

1.show your interest by paying attention
2.focus on others saying instead of thinking of what you're going to say
3.Assume others' speeches are important
4.Give feedback to show you're interested
5.Avoid feedback that evaluates/criticizes others
6.Avoid giving advice unless others ask
7.Ask open questions to encourage people to continue
8.............

You shall produce understanding not agreement.....

(source book of Skill for life Sue Couch...)

Bzzz life

This month and the first month of July, I shall not write anything in my diary. It is the busiest time, the most stressful time, the most tiring time, the sickest time....

this is the month of the beginning of final exam at IFL which I promise myself to make a miracle back. I need to be one among the top students again. It's time to show my real potential, my real ability...
Yet, it is not easy as said. lot lot of other workload comes to me once. My work at AIESEC right now almost takes my free time & my reading time & my study time to work on it, jst because to reach the mission of team. Still, i want to say i glad :)

Honestly speaking, I cut out my time with friends with fmaily, with relationship process... This makes me emotional conflict; I'm so upset. I ignore my beloved as I get ignored too. I jst hope sb will sit to listen to me, encourage me to confront this, stay with me to deal with de challenges... Well, only songs can confort me right now (like a drink for a miserable man; tomorrow still the problem facing)...

Positivly, during this hardship, I have learnt a lot. I learn to recognize my own performance, my own ability, my new knowledge which applies the most "dance like a butterfly sting like a bee". This means we know when we shall work when we shall relax... Yes! that's correct as Jan said: hardship makes you be a better man :)

So, just smile to problems. It jst makes you better ^&^

Smile,

Smey